Friday, 14 September 2018

Are You In An Honest Relationship?

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Many people believe it will never happen to them.The person they are with loves them, right? Well, not if they are cheating on you and 35% of people admit to cheating. It's always a hard reality to accept when you find out that the person you love most in the world is being unfaithful to you, but, it's also something you need to know. You might have your suspicions and if you do,  you need to either ask your partner or do some investigating. You need to know if you're in an honest relationship before you get your heart broken. Here are some of the ways that you can find out...
Talk To Them

One of the first things that you should do if you have any suspicions is talk to your partner. I know some partners lie and don’t own up to what they have done. However, there are some that when you tell them you're having these worries, if something is going on then they will tell you the truth. If they don’t tell you the truth and you find out later, even if you could have forgiven them for straying once, you can't forgive them for lying to your face about it.

It might be that nothing is going on at all and you are off the mark. This can be the case sometimes and if you talk to your partner it's likely that they will be able to straighten this misunderstanding out and make you feel better about the situation. One thing you should always do though is watch out for lies. If anything they say doesn’t line up with what they have previously told you, your concern may be warranted.

Get Some Advice

If you're not ready to talk to your partner just yet, you can always seek advice from other people. Friends and family members are a good way to go as they may be able to advise you on what to do in your individual situation. However, if you don’t feel like you want to let your friends and family in on your concerns incase they turn out to be nothing, there are other places that you can seek help. For example, if you believe in the spirits, you can get a tarot reading online. If this is something that you believe in then you know that the cards don’t lie and they may be able to give you the answers that you need.

Do Some Investigating
On the other hand, you can do some investigating yourself. Now, I'm not suggesting that you violate your partner’s privacy here, because there are other ways that you can do this. You can talk to their friends, or you can even talk to the person you think they're having the affair with if you think it will lead you to answers.

If your partner allows you free access to their phone then there is no reason why you can’t look around a little. After all, if they have nothing to hide then what's the problem? If it will put your mind at ease, your partner should have no problem with you being on their phone. Although this is the case, you should never feel like you have to check your partner’s phone for signs of cheating.

I hope that you take this advice and find out if you are in an honest relationship. Remember, if you can’t trust your partner, then there is no real relationship.

*Please note that this is a collaborative post*

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