Wednesday, 9 September 2015

Let The Haters Hate

Something that has been wandering around in the back of my mind for a little while now has been haters, and why people hate on others. It's something that I personally can't understand at all.
We are all entitled to our own opinions. That's a given. But, there is a fine line between having an opinion, and hating on someone when they haven't even necessarily done anything wrong.
Young children, and teenagers these days get judged, and hated on far too often, and I honestly do think it's ridiculous, and completely out of order. Growing up is hard enough as it is without added worries. Young people always feel as though they are not good enough, or as though they need to change, because a few people are picking on them constantly, whether it be in school, or on social media. Just because someone wants to be unique, and do things the way that they want to, doesn't give anyone else the right to tear them down, or make hurtful remarks to that individual.
The world would be so terribly boring, and pointless if we were all the same, don't you think?
Instead of dragging others down, why aren't we encouraging them to be who they want to be?
You shouldn't be listening to what other people say. Most of the time, it's down to jealousy, as they may envy a particular quality that you have. You should be seeing it as a compliment. They clearly care so much about you that they feel the need to constantly bring you up in conversation. Although you may find it upsetting, and quite offensive, you need to try and think positively about the situation. So what if people are laughing at you? So what if they are making comments about your hair, your freckles, your teeth? You are you, and you will always be you. Nothing can change that.
These rude, insensitive people will only be in your life for a couple of years. They won't matter when you are married, with a family of your own, and a successful business. You just need to focus on your work, and the friends that you do have, and take no notice of anyone else, as they simply have nothing better to do than envy you, and allow jealousy to consume their lives. That's their problem!
What do you do to overcome hate? How do you feel about people that come across this way?
Jade x

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